I have never spent a lot on my little ones for Christmas. I buy them one really nice thing and a couple little things. Then I take them with me every time I do something for charity at Christmas. I want them to realize that Christmas is more about giving than receiving. Some of my friends think that the boys will not be happy about that when they get older and will think that mom is not doing enough for them for Christmas. I think that we will establish some very important traditions. Just trying to get some opinions on the subject. Should I buy them more things or should I just keep on doing what I am doing?